
@maliciouslycreative @unforth-ninawaters
Both of my parents have been summoned in the past year. Mom wasn’t needed but my dad did get to sit on a jury… until they declared a mistrial. I’m just excited to have it be a possibility, honestly.

@maliciouslycreative @unforth-ninawaters
Both of my parents have been summoned in the past year. Mom wasn’t needed but my dad did get to sit on a jury… until they declared a mistrial. I’m just excited to have it be a possibility, honestly.

@unforth-ninawaters
You’re welcome! A big part of the reason I asked was to make sure everyone was on the same or similar pages when it comes to what the tags mean. Obviously, a warning or rating doesn’t mean much if there isn’t a broader understanding of what qualifies.
There are some scenes I can’t watch and tbe garbage disposal scene is definitely of them. *shudders* That’s literally one of my biggest fears.
But the violence thing is always so weird to me. I personally think, even a mild “and he beheaded a vampire” warrants a Teen rating at the very least. It’s like horror movie ratings imo. Teen is PG 13, Mature is R, Explicit is NC 17. But that’s just me.
@unforth-ninawaters replied to your post
I mean we’re historian types of course it’s meaningful to us. (I actually gave up pursuing my masters in history because the department I was in insisted that we had to use exclusively post modern approaches, like, “political history is dead long live social history!” And since I’m primarily a military historian…fuck that…but the intersection of the “old” way of doing history and the “new” way is producing really fascinating reexaminations. I wouldn’t want to take a
Post modern approach but that’s a choice. Before condemning
it one still has to know what it is.My thought on people who unilaterally condemn things like
post modernism and “author is dead” kind of lit critique is that
these are not their fields and they’re in fields that are filled with
meaningless jargon. Since they’re used to that they assume every other field is
filled with meaningless jargon, and that if you spew that jargon you’re just
part of a brain washed mass.I think it has truly never crossed their minds that some
fields, even non-science fields, have specialized terminology that actually
means shit.Like, I’ve worked in education. There’s so much bullshit
jargon in ed, and people who work in that field learn to not only tune it out
but also to think less of the people who use it, because they tend to be
self-promoters who want to disrupt shit to make themselves look better and then
leave the regular teachers to clean up the mess. (This is a gross
oversimplification but it’s what I’m familiar with, so). So if you go to
someone in a field like that and start throwingAround technical social science or liberal arts language,
they think you’re full of it. They just here, “here’s an over educated
asshole with no real world experience who thinks they know better than me and
I’m going to have to pick up the pieces and repair the damage they do.”
Whether they’re right or wrong is incidental; it makes then disinclined to
trust terminology they don’t know coming from ANY field, especially a non
science field (were all conditioned at this poiPoint to accept big mystery words in the sciences so I
haven’t found it provokes quite the same negative reaction.) But when we say,
“post modernism” they hear “blah blah blah leverage the
coefficiences to increase student performance blah blah.” It means
nothing. That’s the kind of background I’d guess a lot of these folks come
from. And they can’t be bothered to learn the nuances of the fields to find out
what DOES mean something.(…sorry that got long, I’m done now. đ )
No, but you hit it on the head here. Thereâs this weird strain going on (mostly on the internet) where if you discuss things that are mostly theory to explain real world events, youâre told to âprove itâ with hard sciences or completely dismissed as an elitist moron. Like, hell, you canât talk about feminism on the internet without some asshole spouting shit like ârape culture isnât a thing⌠blah blah blah reasonsâ. Like, no, asshole, rape culture is a thing itâs a shorthand to discuss the ways in which society regards rapists and rape victims and doesnât mean that society says âitâs okayâ just that there is a systemic way in which perpetrators and victims are treated. Same with Patriarchy Theory and Gender Theory.  Itâs the same with words like âsocial constructâ which drives me fuckinâ crazy because debt and money are a social construct but no one argues that debt doesnât exist because that would be asinine.
Like, I get it, not everyone is educated to the degree that some of us are. I havenât finished college at this point and while I would very much like to, my lack of completed education doesnât mean I have no idea what the fuck Iâm talking about. It also doesnât mean Iâm too âelitistâ because I know about and enjoy literary theories, feminist theories, and historical perspectives.
But I think a huge part of this, too, is that people donât know what the words theyâre using actually mean. Like, okay, if weâre talking about postmodernism, âthe author is deadâ doesnât mean âI can do whatever the hell I wantâ, it means authorial intent doesnât matter. That is absolutely useful for examining some texts and using other literary and critical theories to discuss them. I always think of Fahrenheit 451 in that respect, because Bradbury was pretty adamant that his book was about mass media reducing interest in literature and NOT the Red Scare or McCarthyism. So does that mean the interpretation that Fahrenheit 451 is about McCarthyism is valueless and should be discounted because the author told us not to look at it that way? Hell no! What Bradbury meant doesnât matter because if I can make a well thought out argument based on the text and possibly the historical context of his novel, Iâm right. Heâs also right. There are multiple interpretations of a text across time. What Bradbury says about what he intended does not matter and neither do Orwellâs real-world thoughts on Communism if Iâm reading Animal Farm or 1984. Thatâs postmodernism (well, one aspect at least). Itâs not about ârightâ or âwrongâ itâs about finding meaning. But thatâs just how itâs applied to literature. There are other aspects applied to history and social theory.
But by the same token, there are schools of thought that argue we should take into account what the author means. There are people who argue that authorial intent and historical context matter so when discussing Fahrenheit 451 we should only discuss the rise of mass media. Thatâs okay, though. That is useful as well, and knowing historical context and literary tradition is important, too. Modernism is just as interesting and important as postmodernism is.
(Now, as you said, postmodernism doesnât always work. I had a class a few years ago about World War One in which the professor focused on social history in lecture and all of our readings were military history. It was jarring as hell and hard to keep up with, but it did provide a lot of interesting insight into the technical aspects of the war and the personal aspects. It was really interesting but also hard to follow. I donât think postmodernism works with some history, especially from a military perspective. I also donât think it works for analyzing certain texts, like religious doctrines, either.)
But the outright dismissal of jargon is ridiculous. I do think there is an issue in some people who discuss things on the internet are not experts and donât completely know what theyâre discussing (hell, Iâm not an expert, either) so terms get muddied and arguments become âthis is what I understand of postmodernism based off what so-and-so said so itâs all bullshitâ but thatâs not helping anyone either. Just⌠I dunno. I donât know how to fix it or how to make it all make sense but then again, I donât know if itâs worth it. I will continue to go on my rants and scream into the void while everyone else circles the drain.
@unforth-ninawaters replied to your post
As someone who kinda hates post modernism…its still an important artistic and intellectual movement that has been critical in advancing our approach to history and culture
Absolutely. Love it or leave but postmodernism has been absolutely crucial to our developments of critical theory, the way we study history, feminism, culture, and philosophy. Like, itâs just the nature of the way we begin to understand and relate to the world after something as massive and earth shattering as WW2. It has flaws, sure, and itâs not of interest to everyone all the time, but that doesnât mean itâs just a load of crap.Â
Iâm pretty sure this BS comes from the misinterpretation that postmodernism is âmeaninglessâ and means ânothing matters and I can do what I want with everythingâ. Which it doesnât but no one picks up a book anymore or does the slightest bit of research before trying to argue concepts.Â
@unforth-ninawaters replied to your post
Phrase it as, “rec list of my faves, my taste is a little different from mainstream.” I’ve found as long as I focus on preference instead of quality people are usually cool with it. Like I feel comfortable saying publicly, “I personally didn’t enjoy the works of x and y popular author.” I mean, taste is what makes a horse race, right? But for a rec list you don’t even have to do that, just say, “rec list of my favorites!” And leave it at that.
Thatâs a good idea. And youâre right, it is all about personal taste.Â
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I mean…maybe just go for it an be honest? I used to do reviews like that…
No one ever said anything but I stopped cause I worried I’d hurt someone’s feelings.
Yeah I was gonna add to what I wrote…im Also incredibly picky if I waited for a perfect fix I’d never rec anything. I have like 4 perfect fics in all of fandom.
I think, “I loved this because xyz but wish there’d been more Sam” is a perfectly reasonable critique especially since it’s obviously a personal preference and not a condemnation of the author.
Thatâs very true. Iâd never rec or read anything if I held out for the âperfectâ fic. I mean, I donât think there are even published novels I like that donât have a flaw or two.Â
But that phrasing is good. I think thatâs a good way of voicing my concern but not condemning anyone. It tells people what they need to know and how I feel without getting too critical, so itâs good.Â
On a slightly tangential note, Iâve been thinking a lot recently about how to appraoch a rec list of fics that I personally feel are better than the things that constantly get recâd. Like, I donât want to sound like I know so much better or whatever but there are fics that are way better than the few that seem held up as fandom standard. But I also donât want to make those authors feel bad or encure the wrath of their fans. IDK, itâs tricky. I just know there are a few people Iâve spoken with who might be interested in some destiel fics but read the stuff thatâs popular and wind up totally not getting why those fics are popular. (I donât really get it either. I suspect timing has a lot to do with it though.) Itâs like this delecate balance between not wanting to offend or discourage authors and wanting to ensure fans know about good fic.Â
I want to have long, interesting conversations about the different ways shippers see ships but I have a feeling that no one cares.Â
@unforth-ninawaters
I am pretty much always in the mood to talk ships. So, whenever you’re interested you can send me a message or reblog this post or make a post or whatever.

@unforth-ninawaters
Nothin’ out of the ordinary on my end, just your typical nonsense about ships and all kinds of other minor things that are apparently bad now.

@righteousdemondean
Itâs funny, but it does! I have several cousins that are adopted. My great aunt and uncle are in their 70s and are still foster parents. And my momâs step-siblings are all also adopted. Itâs just a normal part of my family. Which is cool to me.
@trisscar368 also suggested Ent, which I also like. Par or Ent sound nice, I think. I mean, obviously âparentâ is an alternative to mom or dad, but par is short and easy the way mom and dad are. Probably easier for young ones to say than ârenâ, too.
@righteousdemondean @unforth-ninawaters
Like, now that I know parpar is butterfly in Hebrew it kinda makes it cute. Like, hell yeah I wanna be a butterfly to my kid. A creature that transforms from one thing to another? Kinda apropos.
But there’s also the fantasy-ish element that I don’t like. Mops is kinda cute, though. So is ma-pa.
I dunno. I’m sure I’ll figure it out by the time I have little ones.