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Sam Winchester + 8, 18, 19, 20 (wincestiel or winjimstiel) pretty please

8) Sex headcanon
Sam may be very dominant in bed but he doesn’t like total and complete submission. He prefers sex to be like a game of tag where he’s the chaser and who he’s sleeping with is the runner. 

18) Favorite possession headcanon
Sam has a lock box full of all of his favorite and most cherished things. It’s got photos of people who’ve passed, brochures from some of the weirder motels he and Dean have stayed in, what remains of his first utility knife, ticket stubs from plays and movies Dean took him to when they were kids, and other little things. The box itself is his most prized possession. 

19) Favorite photograph headcanon
It’s a photo of himself, Dean, and Cas during the apocalypse. He has no idea who took it or when, but it was one moment of levity between the three of them. Dean’s laughing and Cas is smiling. They all look so much younger back then. 

20) Relationship with/thoughts on _____ headcanon
So Sam was actually the one who wound up orchestrating the whole relationship between himself, Dean, and Cas, though it was mostly accidental. He’d finally given up on making any headway with Dean after he came back from Hell, despite their previous dalliances and figured Dean and Cas must’ve had something based on the way they circle around each other all the damn time. Eventually he realized neither of the idiots made a move and wound up harboring a small little crush on Cas himself. After years of nothing happening and no one doing anything about it, Sam finally reached the end of his patience and told Dean that if he wasn’t going to make a move, he was gonna ask Cas out. Dean called his bluff and Sam and Cas started dating. Of course then Dean got all pouty about it and one half-drunken revelation later, the three of them found themselves in a relationship. 

Thanks! Headcanon Asks

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LMAO. You might not remember but I’ve used the tag too. I really really really want it to become an actual tag on ao3 ��

I know you have! Because you hope that one day when fandoms wonder “why the hell is this a tag? who started this?” they’ll look back at all the fics tagged in ao3 and see my user name at the bottom. Future generations will look back in awe at what will have become my greatest accomplishment. 

The Dragon’s Keep & Bang, Bang

The Dragon’s Keep is my wincest wip currently on Ao3! Dean is a dragon slayer who was raised by Lord Cain after his village was burned to the ground and his family killed by dragons. Sam, on the other hand, is a ¾ dragon (his mother was half, his father was completely dragon) who has been ostracized from his nest because he doesn’t think the way his kind treats humans is right. The two meet when Dean is separated from his adopted brother, Cas, during a hunt and Sam saves his life. 

It’s a forbidden love/alliance kind of thing that I don’t want to spoil too much, but it involves self-discovery, bridging the gap between humans and dragons, and Sam accepting his rightful role as leader. 

Bang, Bang (Daddy’s Little Psycho) is part of my Peacemaker ‘verse! It will be an actual fic with an actual plot that follows Jimmy as he reunites with Claire, the daughter he never knew he had. She’ll team up with Dean, Sam, Cas, and Jimmy to take revenge on the cult she and her mother were a part of after Amelia left Jimmy. Of course, more than just taking revenge on people who definitely deserve some jail time, Jimmy is concerned about whether or not his daughter is going to get sucked into the life he leads. Whether or not she does will remain to be seen… 

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samanddeaninpanties replied to your post “So here’s the thing about headcanons (because some people don’t seem…”

Read your tags – people seriously think the autistic!Jack headcanon is problematic?! I s2g that word gets thrown around so much (‘problematic’) it’s lost all meaning.

Yup. There was one post the OP responded to that was incredibly long and “I know what I’m talking about, I work with autistic people” about how it was “spreading stereotypes” and “generalizing” and “problematic”. Which… if you read the post, you’d know OP themselves was autistic and was basing a lot of their headcanon off their own symptoms and relating to Jack in that way. But you know… that’s problematic, I guess. 

This is slightly tangential, but I’m honestly starting to get really irritated with how creators are and aren’t allowed to portray neuroatypical and/or mentally ill people in their own creations. Like, yes, I understand that we don’t want to make out like it’s always a bad thing or a burden or w/e but a) that gif set wasn’t even doing that and b) it isn’t always peaches and cream. Not everything is a stereotype when it comes to mental struggles, sometimes it’s just a common symptom. And sometimes people who struggle with it do feel like their symptoms are a pain in the ass and prevent them from doing what they want, and they should be allowed to express that, too, without being blamed for demonizing themselves. There is a difference between portraying things in a negative light and blaming the neurodivergence and showing a less than sunny side of the neurodivergence without blaming anyone or anything for the behavior. 

But that’s the end of that little rant. Basically, I’m tired of seeing anything and everything being turned into a giant fucking problem even when it’s ovbious that was never the intent. 

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Imo, Tumblr isn’t a great indicator of who reads your fic. It’s those unknown subscribers on ao3 who are your real fans (I’m one of them).

Yeah, I know tumblr isn’t the best for actually finding out who reads my fic but I was just curious. I tend to wonder what the people who follow me are following for, especially when I don’t post a lot of original content. I am grateful for my subs on ao3, but I wish I knew who they were so I could interact with them a little more. 

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Okay!! Thanks for clarifying. It looks like I read your post wrong (wouldn’t be the first time, oops). Fun suckers are 100% a problem in a lot of fandoms and I totally get why they rub you the wrong way.

No worries! And honestly I should’ve been more clear, too. Sometimes I forget that because I know what I’m talking about not everyone else does. 

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I would like to point out that one can look at things realistically and STILL be dealing with it like an adult. I don’t think it’s fair to deem one way as treating the situation like an adult and another way isn’t. It’s more about the individual situation for me. Unprompted anons? That’s for sure not behaving in adult manner. That’s dragging someone down. I’m with you there. But there is nothing wrong with managing expectations, imo.

I guess I’m also speaking from a place where I’m personalizing this a little. I’m not always positive in my fandom stuff. I’m not always thinking best case scenario. Sometimes I get a little negative. And I would rather not get lumped in with the people who “need to deal with it like an adult.”

So I wasn’t clear when I said that I think it’s more important that people deal with disappointment like an adult. I didn’t mean that managing expectation isn’t dealing with it like an adult. I didn’t really elaborate on it, but to me, dealing with disappointment like an adult means you don’t throw a fit and take it out on everyone when things don’t go your way. Being upset, leaving a fanbase that no longer makes you happy, venting – those are all dealing with it like an adult. Screaming at people, threatening people, being a giant jackass – those are not dealing with it like an adult. What I meant when I said I thought dealing with disappointment was more important than being “realistic” was that I think it’s more important that people handle being upset with maturity than it is that they expect certain things. Like, the way I see it, we can always be wrong or shortsighted but I think it’s more important to know how to handle when things don’t go your way than it is to have no expectations or more realistic expectations. And having high expectations isn’t more mature, either. Does that make sense? Because I’m not saying being actually realistic about stuff is immature. Being slightly cynical or skeptical about things isn’t always a bad thing. 

What I was talking about specifically in my post was when people go to positive bloggers completely unprompted, either on anon or on their positive posts and go “But what about X” when the blogger has stated several times they’re not interested in talking about X.That… doesn’t help anyone, imo. 

To me, there’s “realistically managing expectations” and then there’s realistically managing expectations. I think a lot of times being realistic is made to be the enemy of positivity even though I don’t agree that it is. “Realistically managing expectations” (with air quotes) is when you get so stuck in the negatives and convince yourself that the only possible outcomes are ones you’re not happy about – which is kind of the exact opposite of when you’re so convinced it can only go the way you’d be happy with that you won’t consider the alternative. It’s being so wrapped up in it that when people say “hey, sure, it could happen but I’m not interested in thinking about that right now, I’m interested in having fun” you try to convince them they’re not being “realistic” and need to adopt your PoV and quit having fun (which I’ve been on the receiving end of). Realistically managing expectations (sans air quotes) is when you would like ABC to happen and you might think it could because of some evidence you have, but you know DEF could also happen and you’re willing to accept that as a possibility as well. It’s also thinking that ABC could be neat but there’s no evidence for it and DEF is the way things are more likely to go, even if you don’t like DEF. 

I’m using air quotes for “realistic” for a reason. I’m not talking about people who understand that anything could happen in a series or are coming to conclusions based off what they see and understand. I’m not talking about having a healthy dose of skepticism. I’m talking about the kind of people who suck enjoyment out of things. Actual realism is a good thing. Being so negative that you feel the need to bring down everyone else or not even let yourself consider fun stuff even in fandom, probably isn’t. I’ve seen a lot of people push their negativity off on others under the guise of “realism” and that’s what I’m complaining about.Â