I Really Hate Asking, But I Need Some Help

Hello! My name is Shalee (though most of you might know me as Rose) and I need your help. 

To start off, about three years ago my father was in a near-fatal motorcycle accident. He made a miraculous recovery, but the chaos and turmoil that resulted from it have really thrown me and my family through a loop. While he was in the hospital he was unable to bring in more than the temporary disability pay that his job provided. My mother suffers from chronic back pain,  and her ability to work and care for my recovering father was severely limited. My own health wasn’t great at the time but since then it has only gotten worse and I am now unable to work or go to school because of it. For a period of about two years, my family was surviving on loans and the charity of extended family in order to pay our mortgage and other expenses. 

Three years ago I was in college, well on my way to graduating with a double major in English and History but since then I’ve had to drop out of school and try to get my own health under control. The stress of my father’s accident, his subsequent job loss afterward, and his recovery has left me rattled and at this point I’m just trying to get my life together so that when I’m ready to go back to school I can do so unburdened by my own health.

I’ve had bad teeth since I was a teenager but recent stress has caused me to start grinding my teeth and several of them have broken.  I have been able to go to the dentist and have arranged for oral surgery, which will take place on October 17, 2017. After the extractions, I will need a bridge to make up for my missing teeth. Insurance will pay for most of this, but there is a $500 cost for the temporary bridge (which will allow me to eat and carry on like normal for the six weeks that my jaw is healing and the permanent bridge is being made) that my insurance does not cover.  I need the money by the time I get fitted for my partial, which will be on the 19th of October.

I would ask for help from extended family, but after the strain of the past few years, they don’t have anything left to give. I cannot work due to the pain caused by my dental issues and the mental health issues I’ve also been battling. Any possessions of worth have already been sold in the past three years to take care of my family. 

I would really appreciate your help today. I hate asking for money and I’m frankly embarrassed about asking and revealing so much about myself and my situation. If I could do anything else, I would but I need this money so I can start on my journey to be a healthier person and get my life back on track. 

My deepest thanks, 
Rose. 

Please Donate to my gofundme

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petition to rename the usa ‘south canada’

what about alaska

are we then normal canada

canada a bit to the left

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What about South America? Is that just America? Or South South Canada?

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i cried my ass of laughing

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WARM CANADA

i caN’T BREATHE OH MY GOD

I’m not even from Canada but I approve this change of names

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IT HAS RETURNED

FOUND IT

IT IS AN HONOUR TO HAVE THIS GRACE MY DASH

reblogging from myself bc i found this when scrolling through my blog

Reblogging again because this is too god for not reblog

this is one of the few posts you have to reblog or else you’ll never see it in a million years besides screenshots

@angelfireeast It’s back!

It will never die! 😆

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sometimes i scroll through stephen king’s twitter and i’m never disappointed

He wrote a orgy sex scene between a group of children

There’s this thing called authors writing something they don’t agree on. Writers write about murdering, they don’t immediately become a murderer. Just saying (;

Writing about children having sex is different to having people die

That’s exactly my point. People write about incest. People write about pedophilism. People write about terrible things like that. Guess what, they don’t immediately approve of it. Never mix up the author, the implied author and the narrator because they’re different things.

Totally vague and I’m not sure I know full details for sure but didn’t Stephen King write about a homophobic killing precisely to frame it as terrible and wrong in the IT story? Just cos you write about something doesn’t make it what you condone – it’s generally the opposite when it’s something bad, when it’s framed as wrong! Duh

Yep Tink, exactly. He wrote it to show how bad it is. Same with Mr Mercedes. The mass murderer wants to have/has sex with his mom, is homophobic and racist and even though from his POV he sees this as good and all, you know that it isn’t. For history we read a part from a book written from the pov of a German soldier executing people. We know it’s bad, everyone knows, the author too, and still they wrote about it. That’s the thing about writing, you don’t have to agree with it to put it in your work.

I hope you don’t mind me jumping in, but I just have to say something here. This attitude that the author(s) of Bad Things automatically condone the Bad Thing because they wrote about it needs to stop. It’s a non sequitur and it’s not only bad logic, it’s a dangerous mindset to have. The man is the biggest name in American Horror for pete’s sake and if he can’t write about vile, evil, gross things without the implication that he somehow supports said vile, evil things then who’s immune? Genre conventions of horror include things that are designed to gross you out, to scare you, to make you feel icky. That’s the whole point of the genre! And to be frank, it doesn’t matter if you’re reading from the POV of the murderer or the victim – we know going in (because we’re reading horror and know what to expect from the genre) that it’s not going to be nice or “okay” in real life. It’s fantasy! 

Now, of course, it’s okay to critique authors on their works. It’s totally okay to point out things that weren’t perfect or were racist/homophobic/sexist/ect in written work but you can’t just write an author off and imply they’re Bad because of one thing they wrote one time. Need I mention that yes, King wrote a child sex scene, but he also wrote a book about a black man who was unjustly murdered by the state in which the white narrator is doomed to live (and age) for godknows how long b/c of his involvement in the man’s death? (Yeah, I can cherry pick, too.) 

Seriously, this idea that one thing about a writer’s body of work should define them and condemn them is ridiculous and needs to end. Also, here’s King talking about the scene in question. He aslo brings up the point most funny to me; that we worry so much about the sex scene but don’t talk too much about the child murderes as the thing that should condemn him. 

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omfg that is just too adorable

This kitteh having a little halloween adventure is one of my favourite posts of all time 🙂

Every fall like clockwork this photo set pops up and we all must reblog it

You know it’s getting close to Halloween when you see it appear 😀

This will always be one of my favorite comics ever. It gives me warm fuzzies~

my heart….

< Puts a bowl of water outside the stray kittehs little home

have a good halloween little cats

And your sleepy mom too ❤

this will never stop being my favorite!! ❤❤❤❤