If you’re weird I’m weird too!! Literally all I care about is if you’re a good person. SPN posts are preferred but it’s not the end all be all for me. Just. Accept me and I’ll accept you.
Pretty much, right? Just be friend material and we’re good basically.
i have *no idea* it’s literally in my blog description: “destiel and dcj shipper” i post other ships but those are two that you are GUARANTEED to find. sometimes i get this influx of followers when a fic gets reblogged (always destiel) and then out comes the dcj and the numbers drop
¯_(ツ)_/¯
I guess they just don’t wanna hang with the cool kids who ship dcj.
(Which, don’t get me wrong, I understand why a person wouldn’t like the ship buuuut it seems dumb to unfollow and not just blacklist for.)
I have right in my description that I’m a multishipper and other ships wind up on my blog so… maybe they just don’t believe me? or you
If u ever unfollow you, it’s unintentional. Tumblr likes to make things like that happen. Know that I’m here. Even if I don’t agree with you on every ship, I love your blog 🙂
Thank you! You’re super sweet! 🙂
I tend to lose the most followers whenever I post sastiel or Cas & Misha together for some reason???? Oh! Also any time I celebrate a woman on the show or the wives. *grumbles* I mean, seriously, I get unfollowing me for dark fic, but c’mon. Women and rare ships matter too!!
I know you corrected that to Jared & Misha, but I have literally read Cas/Misha before so…. *hides my ao3 history*
I tend to lose followers for deanjimstiel, wincestiel, dean/anyone that isn’t cas, and cas/anyone that isn’t dean. Those I guess I get. I mean, the implications of deanjimstiel and wincestiel are enough to drive people away. But what bugs me is when I post the “wrong” ship like dean/ketch, cas/meg, cas/balthazar, etc. It’s like.. wow. One fic is enough to drive you off? I don’t get it.
I’ve never lost followers for posting about the ladies of spn or wives but in someways I guess I see why. I stil think it’s a little dumb though. Blacklisting is a thing, ya know? Maybe it’s just me but I pretty much only unfollow people if they become terrible people or if they stop posting SPN and we’ve never talked. I literally do not care what ships a person likes or what their opinions are on characters I do or don’t like as long as things are tagged. I mean, people write I follow write lots of fic. Some is too fluffy for me and other are too dark or contain things I have Issues with but it’s not enough for me to unfollow. *shrugs* Maybe I’m the weird one.
You’re very welcome, friend. 🙂
I do have to admit, my aro headcanons are a bit self-serving. I’m aro so I like to show some of my favorites as aro in fics and headcanons. (Partly because people tend to understand concepts better in fiction so if they see Dean or Sam or Cas as aro or ace or on the a-spectrum(s), they’ll understand it better.) So yeah, ace and aro headcanons and representations of characters are important to me. 🙂
I tend to see Sam as pansexual demiromantic, but demisexual demiromantic or demisexual panromantic totally works for me, too. I would definitely agree he has issues with sex and romance, though. And I think that can be born out in canon as well because he’s kind of apathetic about sex and romance. Like, as much as people seem to see Sam as straight, I kind of don’t. I don’t see him really caring about the gender of his partners. It kinda feels like a default assumption to me, to be honest. He just isn’t that comfortable with romantic advances and he’s not nearly as anxious to sleep with people as Dean is. So, yeah. Sam, in my mind, is definitely on the a-spectrum.
I’m glad you like to see these headcanons, though. And I’m always up for talking about them at any time. 🙂
i also wonder what drives followers away… i’m pretty straight forward about what i blog and tag all the ship stuff… but i still lose followers when i spam dcj…
Usually when I get a bunch I’ll do a new post that’s all about me and my blog but I do tend to forget to do it sometimes. Maybe they just weren’t expecting me to post wincestiel. (Which wasn’t nearly as bad as some of the things I’ve *written*
I’m kinda side-eyeing them if they unfollowed for aro!dean, though. To each their own in terms of headcanons but ya know? That one’s a totally dumb thing to unfollow for.
I’m actually super surprised people would unfollow you for DCJ. Like… it’s kind of one of the big things you’re known for. How do they not know?
I’m gonna have a cup of tea and then I’m going to write one drag queen!James Novak embarrassing the shit out of poor Sam.
@wingsandimpalas
I can absolutely tag you (and anyone else who wants to be tagged) but jsyk it’s going to be Cas/Dean/Jimmy and posted on my other blog (@jamesnovakwinchester). It will likely be rated T or M depending on how far Jimmy’s mouth runs away with him.
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True. I could probably squeeze one in. I do have polybingo to do but one little one-shot isn’t gonna kill me. Then from August on I have some commitments but nothing “due” at specific times. Yea, I could do something just for myself.
@samanddeaninpanties
True. I mean most of the reason I’m writing so much rn is ‘cause life is hard and it gets me through the day, but I might as well enjoy it, right? If I don’t have fun with it what am I even doing it for, other than to kill time and give me a goal month to month? If I just do it for pressure reasons I’m gonna start hating it.
(God that sounds depressing.)
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My tagging is a fuckin mess so you’re probably right. I’m probably forgetting some things and I’m too lazy to check my ao3 rn.
I don’t feel bad about it at all. I love writing rare pairs. I think I just kinda realized the last destiel one-shot I did was in October and I guess I miss that? Like, I haven’t wriiten more on that competition semi-public sex series and I kinda want to but I’ve been busy with other fics. I don’t feel bad, I just guess I miss them, if that makes any sense at all. I mean, UtS was finished in May so it’s not *that* long since I’ve written them, I’m just angsting I guess.@samanddeaninpanties
Omg. The choose your own. Lol. That is just… I don’t even know. I think I should keep it to a minimum on that because I am sooo temtped to throw in different ships. I wanna cut myself off at four but I have no control. lol. People will look at my fic when I post it and go “what the actual hell is this?”
@samanddeaninpanties
It is an idea that demands exploration via other ships! lol.
So other thsn the big two it’s wincestiel, dean/rowena, drowley, dean/ketch, and dean/donna.
@samanddeaninpanties
My tagging is a fuckin mess so you’re probably right. I’m probably forgetting some things and I’m too lazy to check my ao3 rn.
I don’t feel bad about it at all. I love writing rare pairs. I think I just kinda realized the last destiel one-shot I did was in October and I guess I miss that? Like, I haven’t wriiten more on that competition semi-public sex series and I kinda want to but I’ve been busy with other fics. I don’t feel bad, I just guess I miss them, if that makes any sense at all. I mean, UtS was finished in May so it’s not *that* long since I’ve written them, I’m just angsting I guess.
@samanddeaninpanties
Omg. The choose your own. Lol. That is just… I don’t even know. I think I should keep it to a minimum on that because I am sooo temtped to throw in different ships. I wanna cut myself off at four but I have no control. lol. People will look at my fic when I post it and go “what the actual hell is this?”
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