@unforth-ninawaters replied to your post “@unforth-ninawaters replied to your post “I’m just gonna say this:…”

I wonder if it comes from the same place that glorifies Dark Side stuff and has resulted in Hux/Kylo Ren having more almost double the number of fics as Finn/Poe on AO3? Like, Star Wars fans as a group – forget about individuals here – seem to be a more racist, misogynistic crowd than many others.

And the frequency with which I see merch for the dark side EVERYWHERE has hit the point it makes me profoundly uncomfortable both as a consumer and as a mom. Like…why would I want to dress my kid as a Stormtrooper?? WTF kind of message is that???? Yet everyone acts like this is totally normal? The whole thing is so weird to me, tbh. And you know I like Star Wars, but something is off in all this. Like the anti-Nazi message got lost somewhere along the way and it’s instead become something of a haven for white supremacists. And again it’s far from everyone but we all know it doesn’t take more than a small percentage to be really awful people for it to really make a general impact. 

Both actresses deserve better.

Okay. I’m gonna try to do my best with this because it’s actually really complex. The Star Wars fandom isn’t just one fandom, not really. Being as big and as multi-media as it is and with the old EU and the new EU, no two SW fans are the same and no two clusters of fans are going to focus on the same things. This is a fandom that spreads across decades and multiple platforms. It’s really hard to get a read on the demographics because of that. SW tumblr, for example, skews female but SW reddit skews male and both have very different reasons for acting and reacting the way that they do, regardless of whether or not the results tend to wind up the same. 

A huge part of the issue, from what I’ve seen, doesn’t have much to do with Ky/uxers. From what I’ve experienced, there’s extra pressure on those shippers to “properly demonize their faves” and to get upset when others who happen to be fans of either Kylo or Hux don’t seem to be doing the same thing. I do think there’s an element of “two white dudes to ship” that does contribute to the popularity (because it is the most popular ST ship on Ao3). In that respect, I do think that there’s an issue. However, there is a very loud and aggressive contingent of fans that don’t appreciate people who write F/nnP0e the wrong way. There is a very aggressive contingent of fans who will harass multishippers and refuse to interact with certain fans just on the basis of who their faves are and what they ship, to the point of cutting folks off from enjoying art, often because of fear. The fandom itself can and does sour folks from enjoying certain ships and characters. Now, of course I don’t doubt that there are certain implicit biases some people have that lead them to like ky/ux over f/nnp0e and that’s definitely an issue but I’m hesitant to say that that’s the whole problem, just from the way I’ve seen folks act. 

To be completely honest with you, I think there’s two main factions that cause a lot of strife for this particular trilogy. One is on the side of “star wars is the most progressive thing to ever progressive and Rose Tico is anti black because she tazzed Finn and everyone who likes Kylo is a nazi” and the “star wars has been cucked by the sjws and it’s not cool anymore because Rey’s a mary sue”. The end result is the same, unfortunately. Both factions create this toxic environment where it’s okay to harass people or suicide bait them or just be a huge monster because those folks over there are wrong and need to be punished. Granted, the tumblr faction seems to focus more on individuals than the reddit faction (for lack of a better term) does but the vocal minority is very vocal and cruel. 

And I do think the fandom as a whole tends to be more racist and misogynistic. The shit leveled at KMT is abhorrent. The shit I’ve seen leveled at Kathleen Kennedy is abhorrent. I’ve seen black r3ylos called slurs. I’ve seen jewish r3ylos called antisemitic slurs. And I’ve seen those things justified as either “criticism” or totally justified for some ass-backward reason or another.  The scary thing, to me, is that the people who claim to be against abuse and racism and misogyny are all for it when it’s up against someone they don’t like. The people who are fine with using racist and misogynist language against others while claiming to be against those things are people I find more on tumblr than anything else. 

As far as the darkside and all that goes, I honestly don’t know. I understand your concerns. I’m just very hesitant to blame the franchise for making the bad guys look cool because… well… that’s kind of the point. You want your bad guys to be iconic and you want to sell toys. If you have a group of kids playing Star Wars in the backyard, not everyone is going to be playing Luke. I do get the fact that the villains are nazi-coded is uncomfortable and troubling, though. I’m hoping that it will vary when the ST is done and they move on to whatever the next thing is. Maybe then we’ll get bounty hunters or something else. Maybe there is a correlation there, but I’d have to take a closer look at all that crap and I really don’t want to. 

When TFA came out I wasn’t super into Star Wars. I was, however, much more active in certain circles online, like the refutation of anti-feminism and the affirmation of feminism. Anti-feminists latched on to SW hard. It was the biggest tragedy in the world because their precious childhood was being ruined by women and black men and their villains weren’t even cool anymore (too feminine was the argument). If you’ve been watching that from g@mer g@te to present, you’ll see how the rage of fanboys has morphed into alt-right sympathy or support. That’s troubling as fuck. According to this article I read about a week ago, the same fans who took credit for attempting to tank The Last Jedi’s Rotten Tomatoes score also tried it with Black Panther. I personally think that the unchallenged racism, sexism, ect ect has been given a fertile ground to grow in. There’s an element of ownership that combines with the toxicity that’s already there to create a stew of disgusting and potentially dangerous vitriol. 

Just from what I’ve seen and experienced, it comes on two fronts. I can’t honestly say which is worse, though. I just know that there’s a mountain of shit. 

And you’re right. The actresses deserve better. 

And you know, maybe some of this is my responsibility, too. I don’t reblog this stuff. I’ve been holding off because I really don’t know anyone in the SW fandom at this point and I feel like throwing that kind of stuff on my dash might get overly negative, but maybe I should. I’ve been struggling with what to say and when for weeks, but maybe this is my breaking point. 

@unforth-ninawaters replied to your post “I’m just gonna say this: love Rose Tico or hate her, I don’t give a…”

wait WHAT? people chased her off social media? what the actual fuck, she’s such a sweetie!

YUP! She deleted everything off her Instagram within the last day or so. (I should warn that there’s some seriously gross racism cited in the article.) 

She’s been nothing but sweet and positive but people are the fucking worst and decided it would be cool to be disgusting assholes to her. Unfortunately, it’s not limited to just her, either. Daisy was chased off Instagram about a year ago, too, apparently. (Conflicting reports about that one. Some claim it was because she made comments about gun control, others claim she got tired of comments ragging on her appearance.) Regardless, it’s fucking gross and I’m so pissed. I don’t know if these people were fucking raised by wolves or what but I just can’t fathom thinking it’s okay or good to be that cruel to a person over her doing her job. Like when did “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” go out of fashion? What the fuck? 

@gertiecraign replied to your post “I should definitely change my icon for Pride Month but  a) I’m too…”

Can you get all five flags in somehow? Like…make an icon with all five flags sorta stitched together?

btw…same. But it’s because I have no idea what I actually am. there needs to just be a Gertie flag, I think.

Oh that would be such an uncoordinated mess. I mean, accurate because that’s what I am but it would be just not good to look at. 

I would support a Gertie flag. It could be the “no idea but definitely queer” flag lol. 

That video you shared with the child calling to Rey… I heard that the first time I saw the movie in the theater. I thought I was losing it because no one else seemed to hear it. But its definitely a small child.

benperor-ren:

I think someone talked about it before but to actually hear it yourself? Whaaaaa? This lines up with Rey seeing a child Ben with Snoke leaning over him in the TFA novel. And then there’s the whole “It is you” on Starkiller base. I firmly believe these were cut out of the movie because it made things too obvious. And then there’s the fact that Jason Fry couldn’t write too much about what was going on in Ben’s head in TLJ. 

And then we get some weird time stuff going on in Rebels.

That child’s voice definitely belongs to a young Ben Solo. And he’s known about her since he was a child because he had visions/dreams of her.

Hi! I’m the anon! Sorry, I’m a little shy. 

They’ve been doing some really strange stuff with time and space and the force recently and I wouldn’t be at all surprised if ep IX got really weird. I’ve seen a few folks claim they hear whispers in the wind of Ach-to, too but I haven’t been able to make anything out. And in addition to everything you’ve mentioned there’s some other weird stuff, like the Mortis arc which lasted only a few seconds of real time but at least like a day or two for Obi, Anakin, and Asokah – and then the Mortis gods showing up in Rebels for the weird world between world stuff. Rey having dreams of Ach-to and of Ben before she ever met him. Apparently, there’s some stuff in the Empire’s End novels about Jakku but it never actually mentions what’s on Jakku that’s important… 

Idk, I’m not 100% ready to make any predictions or claims yet but there’s something really interesting going on under the surface and I wish I knew what it was. It just makes me go “hmmmm” a lot. 

Ok but can you imagine people finding out that his hair isn’t naturally that curly? Just like someone waking him up at ass o’clock in the morning with a problem and DEAR GOD WHAT IS THAT IN YOUR HAIR???

Okay, but you know all I can think of is that scene in Space Balls where Colonel Sanders walks in on Dark Helmet playing with his dolls.

Except it’s Hux and Phasma and Phasma is all “no, sir, I didn’t see anything” and after Hux gets over his ranting and raving about it he’s snapping pictures as quick as he can and ooops what do you know the Resistance has some new propaganda out all over the galaxy about how the Supreme Leader doesn’t even have real majestically curly hair. How’d they get that? Hux isn’t speaking and Poe *certainly* doesn’t know.

It’s a scandal for the next three weeks at least. 

He has both. but probably winds up using the hot iron more because the rollers take all that foresight and ugh sleeping with them on is just such a PAIN.

Shit, you’re right. Even those “soft” rollers are a pain in the ass to sleep in. And the hot ones are so heavy.
As amusing as I find the image of Ben with big pink curlers in his hair, he probably goes with the iron most of the time.