i totally get why dcj is problematic and why it’s squicky for people. they are totally understandable concerns… but yeah, blacklist that stuff. maybe people don’t read blog descriptions??? which is weird bc that’s like the first thing i read… or maybe they don’t know what dcj means? the mysteries of following/unfollowing

Well, if you don’t know what DCJ stands for you could always ask….
I tend to read the blog descriptions then scroll through the blog for a bit before I follow. Like yeah, a person can what they want it the description but their content speaks volumes. I guess people don’t do that though. Who knows.

i have *no idea* it’s literally in my blog description: “destiel and dcj shipper” i post other ships but those are two that you are GUARANTEED to find. sometimes i get this influx of followers when a fic gets reblogged (always destiel) and then out comes the dcj and the numbers drop

¯_(ツ)_/¯

I guess they just don’t wanna hang with the cool kids who ship dcj.
(Which, don’t get me wrong, I understand why a person wouldn’t like the ship buuuut it seems dumb to unfollow and not just blacklist for.)
I have right in my description that I’m a multishipper and other ships wind up on my blog so… maybe they just don’t believe me? or you

i also wonder what drives followers away… i’m pretty straight forward about what i blog and tag all the ship stuff… but i still lose followers when i spam dcj…

Usually when I get a bunch I’ll do a new post that’s all about me and my blog but I do tend to forget to do it sometimes. Maybe they just weren’t expecting me to post wincestiel. (Which wasn’t nearly as bad as some of the things I’ve *written*
I’m kinda side-eyeing them if they unfollowed for aro!dean, though. To each their own in terms of headcanons but ya know? That one’s a totally dumb thing to unfollow for.
I’m actually super surprised people would unfollow you for DCJ. Like… it’s kind of one of the big things you’re known for. How do they not know?

ships: dcj and sam/eileen pls?

DeanCasJimmy

who’s the cuddler: Dean. Totally Dean. 
who makes the bed: Also Dean. He’s a neat freak. 
who wakes up first: Jimmy. He’s a restless sleeper so he’s usually the one up first. Dean is next because of work and Cas has to be dragged out of bed.
who has the weird taste in music: Cas. Cas has very eclectic musical tastes, much to Dean and Jimmy’s surprise. 
who is more protective: It depends. They’re all very protective of each other, but Jimmy can be the most frightening when Cas is threatened. Dean is like a volcano; he blows up when Cas or Jimmy are in any perceived danger. Cas is more like a hurricane; he’s fast, loud, and destructive. Jimmy is a blizzard; he’s a cold, slow build until suddenly you’re buried under six feet of shit. 
who sings in the shower: Jimmy. He’s incredibly loud, too. 
who cries during movies: Jimmy and Dean. 
who spends the most while out shopping: It’s Dean. He likes very specific pasta sauce (if he doesn’t make it myself) and soap and sheets. 
who kisses more roughly: Jimmy. He’s a bit of a sloppy kisser, too. 
who is more dominate: Cas. Come on, is there really any doubt. 
gets jealous the most: They all go through bouts of jealousy. They try not to be, but when you’re in a triad it happens. Dean sometimes feels that Cas and Jimmy have a bond he could never hope to match, Jimmy worries that Cas and Dean could easily do without him because they fit so well, and Cas knows Dean and Jimmy have so many of the same interests that he worries he can’t keep up. 
one headcanon I have: Obviously they have some issues dealing with their relationship. It’s taboo, and that does put them under a lot of stress at times. They actually got into a huge fight when rumors about who Jimmy was sleeping with started to circulate at his work and he nearly broke it off with both Cas and Dean because he let it get inside his head. 
nicknames: Dean loves nicknames. He calls Cas and Jimmy “babe” and “sweetheart” but Jimmy is often JimJam (Jimmy hates that) and Cas is often Grumpy. Jimmy calls Cas Cassie to mess with him and Dean is “babe”. Cas doesn’t do nicknames, but when he’s irritated with Jimmy he calls him James (which Jimmy also hates). 
my rating of the ship from 1-10: 11

Sam/Eileen

who’s the cuddler:  Sam is an octopus.
who makes the bed: Eileen, because she knows how to handle the fitted sheet. 
who wakes up first: Sam. He’s very much a morning person. 
who has the weird taste in music: Sam listens to really weird stuff, but Eileen really likes the vibrations of the beats so I guess they both do. 
who is more protective: Sam. He’s like a big angry moose. Eileen can handle herself, but she’s so little and he wants to protect her. 
who sings in the shower: They both do. Together. It’s super cute. 
who cries during movies: Sam “I’m a big sap at heart” Winchester. 
who spends the most while out shopping: Eileen. Well, unless you count when they shop for personal items like shampoo. Sam will spend upwards of $20 on shampoo. Eileen doesn’t care as long as it smells nice. 
who kisses more roughly: Sam. Definitely. 
who is more dominate: Personality wise it’s Eileen. In the bedroom it’s Sam.
gets jealous the most: Sam’s a little jealous of how talented Eileen is but he’s not really jealous-jealous.
one headcanon I have: Sam tried to prose to Eileen but his hands were shaking so bad he couldn’t sign the question and he dropped her ring in the grass (he proposed on a picnic). It took thirty minutes to find the damn thing and she totally said yes. (She was going to ask him if he didn’t propose by the end of the week.) 
nicknames: They call each other the typical sweet things like “babe” and “honey” and “darling”. 
my rating of the ship from 1-10: 9

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