I’d love to talk about my kinks but they’re like NOT encouraged in any way… I wish I was just into BDSM or whatever.. though I do like breath play *coughs*. Anyway, what are YOUR favourite headcanons for Destiel?

Breath play can be fun, esp with Dean and Cas. I’ve read several fun destiel breath play fics. mmmm. 

My favorites are totally dependant on what version of these characters we’re talkin’ about. Like, if it’s angel!Cas I have a huge thing about Dean tugging on Cas’s wings and having it drive him absolutely crazy. Also, Cas glowing and causing lights to shatter in whatever room they’re in when he comes. Or like, Dean realizing partway through that he’s essentially having sex with a being that’s more force of nature than human and kind of getting off on the idea that Castiel could literally do anything to him (maybe a bit of fear kink in there). 

If we’re talking human!Cas I love the idea of their sex life starting out really timid. Like, every act is desperate in a way because they’re both overwhelmed and excited and happy but they can’t get their hands to stop shaking and they have to go slow or they’re going to wind up frantic and it’s all gonna be over way too fast. Obviously, as they get used to each other they mellow out, but I can see the first time or two being timid in a way. (But I’m a sucker for that kind of shit so that’s just me.) 

Also, I like the idea that they’re kind of exhibitionists. Like, maybe the first time it’s right after a hunt and the adrenaline is racing so they just kinda… screw in a graveyard. And then Dean makes some comment about them being the envy of every Byronic teenage boy and Cas is like “do what now?” because Dean’s definitely going to admit to that super brief time when he was fifteen and thought it might be cool impress goth girls and so he read a lot of Romantic literature and wore eyeliner that one time. (But that’s a headcanon for another day. Anyway…) But Cas kinda likes the risk and Dean’s got a bit of a thrill seeking streak in him so they wind up trying to tease each other and get each other off in places they really shouldn’t be having sex. 

Team switch all the way! Headcanon- Cas has zero hang ups about sex and kinks. At first dean is a little freaked out when he finds everything from anal hooks to watersports in the search history but he soon gets on board as it becomes a bit of a game. They print out lists of kinks and try everything that isn’t a hard no for dean. Sometimes it’s a bust and they end up turned off and laughing (or in the hospital that one time) but overall it’s both the best sex and most fun Dean’s ever had.

Absolutely! 

I love the idea of Cas being interested in sex but with no hang-ups at all. It could actually be a really fun fic to read/write in which Dean and Cas go through a yes/no/maybe list and trying to figure out what really does it for them. 

Also, imagining the look on Dean’s face when Cas shows him some of the things he’s been researching. (It’s Dean’s turn to do the squinty head tilt because really, what the fuck is oviposition and do people actually make Jell-O eggs just for that?) 

And like, maybe the hospital visit is only coincidentally related. Maybe Dean trips on a dildo and sprains his ankle. (Poor Dean.) But it’s a good opportunity to try out that medical kink right? (Even if Cas is waaaay too into the role adn Dean is waay too eager to get on with it. Dean has to laugh because they both suck at role play.)