@dragonpressgraphics replied to your post “@maliciouslycreative replied to your post “Maybe I shouldn’t be so…”

hugs! i have a sort of similar situation w/ my father in law he doesn’t do that mentor thing. Instead, he gripes & tries to guilt trip his kids & say we dont make an effort but his (notreallyhis) girlfriend & HER kids do.

It pisses me off. We call for every b-day & holiday. we’ve invited him to all of his granddkids b-day parties. He’s shown up to ZERO. he doesn’t call for anyone’s b-days. there’s more but i’ll start ranting. Just

just i understand some and i’m sorry you have to put up with that kind of thing *HUGS*

*hugs* I’m sorry you’re dealing with that crap, too. It’s so annoying and completely unfair. He sounds like a total asshole. 

@maliciouslycreative replied to your post:
@samanddeaninpanties replied to your post “Maybe…

You are totally validated at being angry over this. My ex was exactly the fucking same. Well he didn’t drink but like everyone thought the fucking world of him. He could charm anyone. Well unless they got to be a good friend of mine then he’d be nasty to them or try and turn me against them. What I’m saying is abusers are A+ at fooling people.

I hate that they’re so good at it. I hate that they’re able to fool people into thinking they’re good and wonderful people. It’s unfair and I hate that you went through it, too.

@theriverscribe replied to your post:
Maybe I shouldn’t be so jealous or petty but it…

Maybe you could anonymously let the people he’s trying to mentor for know of his unwholesome behavior?

See, that would be an okay idea, but they’re not going to believe it. He’s a recovering alcoholic (he’s a dry drunk though, he was knocked out for a few months after an accident so he couldn’t drink instead of deciding to quit and work through the recovery process) so in their mind he’s a changed man. It doesn’t matter what I say, if it’s not currently happening and they can’t see it, they won’t care b/c he admits to being a “less than stellar father” in his words but he won’t go into details and he won’t admit it was his fault. They’re much more likely to believe their buddy than they are to believe me.

@samanddeaninpanties replied to your post “Maybe I shouldn’t be so jealous or petty but it bothers me that my…”

Who says he really cares? He might be doing it for his image. People eat that shit up.

Narcissistic people are generally really good at getting people they aren’t actively abusing to like them

Those are good points. I wouldn’t put it past him, seeing as how the people who wanted him to do it in the first place think the sun shines out of his ass. Everyone seems to think he’s amazing and it always pisses me off because this is the same man who used to get blackout drunk and verbally and mentally abuse us. He’s not the kind of man I’d want mentoring kids and it pisses me off that everyone thinks he’s a wonderful person but he’s not. He neglects everyone who *does* need him until he needs someone to rage at. He’s a self-centered dick but no one sees it and no one wants to believe it. And I hate all the asshats who fall for it and keep propping him up like he’s great. 

Maybe I shouldn’t be so jealous or petty but it bothers me that my father is so involved with other people. He’s offered to be a youth mentor… again… 

It just bothers me because he never gave a shit when I was a teenager. My brother is 16 and my father’s never around to mentor him. It’s just… why do you care so much about other people? Why didn’t you ever care about me? 

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dean’s never going to fuck jeff goldblum because he’s straight heller

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prettymessedupsituation:

I have been summoned. 

Hey, Uh, That’s Some Uh, Ooh That’s Some Bad, Bad Turbulence.

schmerzerling:

okay this is probably my favorite hate i ever got, it’s so good it’s like a PARODY of real hate but here it is in my inbox, as real as the nose on my face

1) i really really really love that THIS is the reason Dean won’t fuck Jeff Goldblum, of all the reasons

2) if dean ever had the opportunity to fuck jeff goldblum, straight or not, you genuinely think he WOULDN’T? no fuckin way. if jeff goldblum wants to bone down, you say thank you and you bone down, that’s just the way this world we live in functions 

you idiot……you fool, you maroon, you’ve only made my desire for jean winblum…..deff goldchester….grow

Rating: Mature
Relationship: Dean Winchester/Jeff Goldblum
Warnings: Everything you never asked for but wanted, Jeff Goldblum’s amazing reading voice
a/n: thank you anon, schmerzerling, and the trashbrigade for making this possible

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The rumble started in his feet and moved through his body like an earthquake. Instantly, Dean broke out into a sweat and grabbed the arm of the guy sitting next to him on the plane. Normally, that person would be Sam – today, it was not.

“Oh, shit. Sorry,” Dean said to the unsuspecting person on the other end of his death grip.

“It’s fine, really, I get it. Bad flyer? Bad fliers having to fly is just….” he spaced off for a minute. “Unfortunate.”

Dean’s mouth went slack. “Uh…no fucking way. You’re the…the dinosaur chaos guy!”

“Mmm. Among other things. I guess I am. Jeff Goldblum,” he said, giving Dean his hand to shake. “Nice to meet you…?”

“Dean Winchester.” He realized he still had his fingers wrapped around Jeff’s thick arm. “Oh, sorry.”

“Happens all the time,” Jeff said with a big smile. He rubbed his arm where Dean had gripped him. “Wow. You sure do know how to grab a guy.”

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I NEVER KNEW HOW MUCH I NEEDED THIS TIL RIGHT NOW!!!! I COULD HEAR HIS VOICE!!!!!

embarrassingwriter:

Be mean to your characters.

What they take for granted? Take it away from them.

The one thing they know for certain? Make them doubt it.

Their worst fear? Throw it at their damn faces.

Make their plans fail. Make them cry. Make them question things and fuck up and then learn about them and the way they react in the process. 

Be mean to your characters. Then be kind to them for a little while, because after all that stuff they may deserve it.