majesticduxk replied to your post “majesticduxk replied to your post “So just because I’m curious…
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I’ve had a hellish year, and I have done my best to keep up with everyone’s writing. But yeah. Most of my friends stopped reading this year (well, it’s been coming, but this year it was many more, and much more noticeable) so it’s definitely not you. I have dealt with a litlte guilty – I seriously believe in encouragement and in just supporting my mates. So I used to read everything that didn’t squick me, but you end up feeling a little hurt when people don’t do the same
(haha I have a lot say) even though that isn’t why you are doing at all! The heart and the ego, eh? anyway. this year has been hellish for me so it changed the way I interacted. I am still subscribed to almost all the writer friends on my list, but I delete a lot more notifications than I used to.
That makes a lot of sense, honestly. When life gets hard you gotta do what you can to be more comfortable and enjoy stuff when/how you can. The good thing about having a lot of buddies is that you have a lot of buddies but the bad thing is feeling like you’re missing people out or not giving everyone enough attention in their endeavors. I definitely want to support my friends, but I’m human and I forget things and get busy. So yeah, I get it. I think, even if you’re not reading the things that your friends write, being friends with people still has value. Just by having fun and talking to people, you know?
Also, I really hope you have a better year next year. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and send good vibes your way.