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Lmao. (My mom introduced ME to Logo…) my wife’s family is a little more like what you’re describing, hee mom is very supportive but it was clearly a learning process, and we think homophobia is part of why her dad became an even being jerk than he used to be (we haven’t spoken to him at all in almost a year, and for a year plus before that only in passing…hes met the potato once for two minutes when we accidentally encountered him in a convenience store – he lives

About 15 minutes from us)

My dad is… not a super pleasant person. Like, I’ve heard him say that the only thing he could disown his kids for is if they were gay. So, ya know, ax murder is fine but not attraction to the same gender. (Obviously, I’m not out.) Our relationship is complicated, to say the least. 

I can see myself not speaking to him for the rest of my life but that would make my relationships with my brothers and mom difficult as well. But he’s in therapy now so who knows. Maybe someday I’ll tell him and he’ll realize that being a huge dick about it won’t help him. 

I’m sorry to hear about your wife’s dad though. He sounds unpleasant, though, so he’s misisng out way more than either of you are.