Her grandma was funny. Lisa was out to her parents but not her grandma (her only surviving grand parent, and I had none) when we started dating. So for the first couple months when Shirley would come over we were like, “just my gal pal visiting from NYC!” (We were long distance then) and finally after maybe six months Shirley was just like…you know I know you’re dating right? And she did struggle with it but she really tried, it was sweet to watch. I was really sad

Awh! She sounds like she was nice. And I’m glad she tried, too, even if she struggled with it. I’m sorry about her passing.