Madd, I gotta ask. No offense to aro people but how can you ship Destiel with aro!Dean? Isn’t the definition of aromantic that you aren’t in a romantic relationship? No hate here, just legit confused.

pecanpiedean:

deancasheadcanons:

nope, being aro just means you don’t experience romantic attraction. it doesn’t mean you can’t be in a relationship. it’s like how asexual people don’t experience sexual attraction, but we can still have (and enjoy) sex. 

i personally think of dean as someone who only knows how to love in one way – with his whole heart. i imagine that the intensity with which he loves makes it difficult for him to parse out differences in relationships. he’s intense about sam, intense about cas, intense about his friends, his mom, etc. distinguishing one type of love/relationship as different than the others would probably make him feel like he’s not giving his all to everybody he loves, like he loves certain people less than others instead of just differently. 

and i’m not saying this is THE definition of aromanticism, i’m just explaining how i see it in dean. 

this is me!!!! this is the thing i am!!!! I’m dean in this post!!!!