@unforth-ninawaters
Thanks
It’s definitely an unlearning process and I hate that it was even a part of my grown up. My mom was much better than my dad (as she was with everything because she’s a decent human and he wasn’t around for most of my life) but the influence from auxiliary family members was still pretty heavy. And even the ones who never joined were still racists. It was a fucking mess and I look back now on some of the shit I heard and was exposed to and I am horrified. So, yeah, I pay attention because I never want to be like them or do to other people even a fraction of what they did.