Why there is so much hatred for Destiel from other Castiel ships?
Like at first i thought it was cause a large majority of Destielfics make meg this evil vile witch and Dean the night in shining armor. Like yeah that pisses me off but i feel like I’m in the wrong for being a part of both these ships. And a group that i created as a safe space to make friends with other shippers is rapidly becoming a Destiel bashing party and it’s really starting to make me want to leave the fandom. It’s like no matter what ship I’m in, or how many times I try to be positive, it’s not enough.
First of all, you’re not in the wrong for liking both ships. You can ship whatever the hell you damn well please as long as it makes you happy. Don’t ever feel bad for shipping things that make you happy.
And I’m sorry people are resorting to ship hate. Some people are just so damn bitter that they have to wank all over the place. It’s one of the joys of multishipping that you get to see both sides be ugly about the other. 
Don’t let them drive you out if you don’t want to leave. Block people if you have to. Stand firm in your conviction that you will not be part of ship bashing. It’s hard sometimes and it’s frustrating as hell but you can’t let them ruin your fun. If they want to wank they can do that in their own spaces, but if it’s a place you created put your foot down and tell them to cut it out or get lost.
And, most importantly, know there are people out there who love both destiel and megstiel and who don’t put up with that crap. And there are people who only ship megstiel but still don’t bash destiel. Unfortunately, you can’t get everyone who wants to be a jerk to stop being a jerk but there are people who don’t have the time for hate and just want to be happy with their ships. Find those people, form friendships with them and ignore everyone else. You can’t change everyone, but you can block nasty people.
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