Oh god, I can’t tell when I’m flirting either. I say things and then like the next day I’m thinking about it and I’m like “oh ffs that was probably flirting but like I just like to compliment my friends and make them feel loved and god fucking damn it I probably made things so awkward”. My ex would be all “Why were you flirting with that girl???” and I would be like “I was just being nice??? idk was I flirting???”

I feel this so hard. 

I suppose that’s why I’m super blunt anymore. Like, if I want to be with someone I’m just flat out like “so do you have a SO? are you interested in women? Can I have your number? ” Which always makes me nervous with girls because that can go really awesome or very very badly.